One golden rule in any kind of love affair is to first love oneself to let others people love you. In case, you have a huge number of reasons not to do so, chances are, other people will try to avoid your self-destroying and criticizing company. Why so? Because nobody is perfect and appearance has nothing to do with who we really are. Given that you are not that satisfied with yourself, your self-esteem suffers and does not let to conquer girls’ hearts.